Brian and Cheryl, I’m so sorry for your loss and the pain you and your families feel. These are some thoughts I gathered in hopes they ease your way forward. With love from your cousin, Jeanne Be easy on yourself. Take care of each other. Take the time you need to learn how to live life without Steven here. You may discover you want to grow within yourself some the roles your brother once played. It could mean you don\'t \"get through” his loss, as much as you \"grow into\" it. How might life change, for you and everyone you both love, if you become the parts of him you’ll carry with you always?