I am truly saddened to hear of Pam's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family in your time of sorrow. To all her friends: Cherish the memories that you spent together and let them give you strength. "Those we love don?t go away, They walk beside us everyday, Unseen, unheard, but always near, Still loved, still missed and very dear." (Unknown)

Pam went to church with us in Union, Mo we loved her upbeat attitude and her wish to know God. She sang very pretty and at the time we knew her always a smile. She wanted so much for her daughter to know Jesus. Pam, us, and a few other people witnessed in front of the church a few years ago, Pam told of someone putting an envelope with her name on it at Christmas which contained $100 which helped her and Mercedes have Christmas that year. We will pray for Mercedes. Pam is at rest with her sweet Jesus.

Those 2 words "Best Friend" do not even begin to say what Pam was to me. She was more than a friend, she was like my sister. We have known each other since we were children and talked to each other just about every day. Troy, Dawson, Pam, Mercedes and myself were like family. Sometimes I think she was at my house more than she was her own. I'll never forget our trip to Disney last year. Who knew it would be our last? She was always there for me in good times and bad. She would do anything for anyone. The past few days have been very hard, but I know Pam is in a good place and looking down on Mercedes right now. Her daughter meant everything to her and I will do everything I can to make sure Mercedes is loved and cared for like Pam loved and cared for her. I will miss her so much. We love you Pam!

Rhonda & Bobby, I am so sorry for your lose. If you need anything please feel free to ask. May your sister rest in the peace of the Lord. Melisa

Pam your in our Prayers, Sadie I wish luck in your rough road ahead.

WE WILL TRULY MISS YOU AND YOUR ZEST FOR LIFE.

YOU ARE A GOOD FRIEND AND BELIEVED IN THE BEST IN EVERYONE. WE WILL MISS YOU.

Pam was a great person. And I know she loved Mercedes very, very much. She will always watch over her little girl.

I was the Minister of Youth at First Baptist Church Union when Pam was a youth. She was always a blessing. I had not seen her in years, but I know she had a real faith in the Lord and she is with Him now.

My deepest sympathy goes out to the Declue family. Pam and I were childhood friends growing up in Riverview. I remember the many sleepovers she spent at my house as we stayed up late playing barbies, or riding around the loop on our bikes pretending to be Charlie?s Angels. I remember Pam?s smiling face that would greet me on the church bus each Sunday morning. I often wonder where I would be without our church family from First Baptist of Union. I am glad that church had such an outreach for kids like me and Pam and gave us such a strong Biblical Foundation to base our lives on! Over the years Pam and I had lost touch. I remember the last time I ran into her. It was at a Def Leopard Concert. She was with a group of girls from Riverview. I was glad to see that they had all kept in touch. What I remember most about Pam was her infectious smile and her happy spirit. When she smiled she lit up the room. You just knew she had the love of Jesus in her heart! I am so proud of the woman she became. She will be greatly missed. I will continue to lift up Sadie in my prayers for the weeks and months to come. I have a 9 year old myself and I just can?t imagine how lost she must feel. I am sure that Pam instilled that same love for the Lord in Sadie as she had in her own life, Sadie just lean on God, your family, your church and your friends you will get through this tough time. I hope when you?re older you will have a chance to read over these accolades from everyone about the wonderful woman your mother was. Never doubt her love for you. You were her reason for living! Goodbye my sister in Jesus. I will look forward to dancing at the feet of Jesus some day with you. Love Cindy

YOU ALL HAVE MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY FOR YOUR LOSS.. PAM WAS A SWEET WOMAN, I WILL MISS SEEING HER SMILING FACE AT SOFTBALL AND GET TO CHAT WITH HER.. SHE WILL BE GREATLY MISSED.. MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALL AT THIS TIME. WITH MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY.. GONE BUT WILL NOT BE FORGOTTEN

My deepest sympathy to the DeClue family and the many friends of Pam. I am so saddened to hear of Pams passing. My heart breaks for her family and her daughter and those close to her.At times like this, there are no "right" words, but rest assured, Pam is safe in the arms of our Savior.I grew up with Pam in Union. In fact we got our first jobs together, Burger King, in washington. We were so excited and of course, thought we were all that 🙂 I was one of the kids in the youth group at FBC Union along with Pam, and Cindy, and many other wonderful people. What a great time we had, and what a blessing it was to have Mitch as a youth minister. Like Cindy had wrote above, I often wonder where I would be today, had I not experienced that youth group, Mitch, and all the friendships along the way.. I am sure Pam would agree.That time was probably the beginning of alot of us kids foundation and relationship with the Lord.How exciting it is to hear Pam followed that road, it sounds, all the way up til the end, and because of that, Praise Jesus, she is happy and dancing with Him today.My prayers are with the family and esp Sadie in the coming weeks and months ahead. I love you Pam and can't wait to see you again some day.

Your family is in my prayers. May God watch over you and guide you through these difficult times. Keep your head up high for Mercedes! Allison

I would like to give my deepest sympathy to Pam's family and friends. I was a member of the First Baptist Church Union also. We were a close group of kids and had a blast together. I have seen Pam a few times through the years and remember her big smiley face. She will be greatly missed.

I would like to share a poem that my Grandpa wrote. In death at last we close our eyes And travel home beyond the sky Our loving Father lights the way Jesus the door opens wide that day From the distant land of woe It's only by death we go back home By Rev. Harold L. Frick

First of all, my heart goes out to the entire family. I am so sorry for your loss. I was never fortunate enough to meet Pam. From the stories I have heard, she was obviously a beautiful person, inside and out. Without ever meeting her, I can tell you of at least two beautiful things she has done. The first one is that she created a family in my sister and her brother. Dwayne and Stephanie would have never met had she not gotten them together. She allowed them the happiness and love they both deserve. Secondly, she gave my family another member that we truly cherish. We are truly blessed to have Dwayne in our lives. He's one of the best people I know. Not only does he make my sister happy, but his heart is genuine. Our family owes Pam a great deal for what she has done for us. I love you Steph and Dwayne and I thank you Pam.

I would like to start off by saying that Pam will remain in our hearts for the rest of our lives. As I read thru some of the comments left by friends, family, & church members; I realized I did not know Pam as well as I would have liked too. She had a spirit like that rest of this family??. nothing will bring them down. We have all always been close BUT; I will say this for this for sure. From this day forth not a single member of this family will take another for granted. Each & every person brings something that is special to the rest of us. I love my big wonderful DeClue family they have taught me the meaning of unconditional love & for that I will always be grateful & will do my best to get to know my entire family better.

We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. May the Lord be with you.

MAY GOD BLESS AND KEEP YOU

We will be praying for the family.

you are a wonderful loving mother, daughter,and sister.i love you and miss you very much. there will be a hole in my heart for the rest of my life.i will carry you in my heart foever.you are 1 of my 7 children that i live for . life for me will never be the same ,we will do all we can for mercdes we love you

I just want to let the family know that I am praying for them and you all are in my heart.Pam was a wonderful person and always had a smile on her face,I don't think I can ever recall seeeing Pam any thing but happy.Her daughter was her life and Sadie meant everything to her,she lived for that little girl.I experienced losing my child a few months ago and it is something that you neverwant to experience,But now Im not so sad because I know Pam is with him and she will watch and take care of him.we love you Pam you will be sadly missed.

Pam, You are one of my childhood best friends that I grew up with. You and Jennifer were like the sisters I never had. I will always treasure our nights as kids playing UNO, eating pizza, ice cream and popcorn. Of course we (Jennifer, you and me) always loved to babysit. You always smiled even on a bad day. Your love for life and God was my inspiration. As kids, you always wanted us to go to church on Sunday with you. You are definitely one of God's angels and you helped spread his word and even made it a priority in your life to teach the children his word on Sunday. You raised your baby girl, Mercedes to know and trust in him. If I haven't told you lately, I love you and always cherished our time together. I love how much you loved Mercedes. She will never have to question the love you had for her. She was everything to you and is lucky to have you as her Mom and now her Guardian Angel. I am not going to try to understand why it was your time to go because it isn't my place to understand or question. I have to trust in God that he had his reasons. I pray in your name that God protects Mercedes and I plead the blood of Jesus over her to protect her and bless her with peace and happiness. Thank you for all our fun times and I am so happy that God brought us closer these past years. I am so happy that Jennifer was always there for you and was truly your best friend. We will honor your memory every year by going to a concert. It has been our dream for all of us to go to Las Vegas on New Years for Jennifer?s Birthday. Jennifer and I will make sure we go and I know you will be there with us in spirit and in our hearts. We will dance every chance we get for you. You always made it a good time! Thank you so much. I love you Pamela and will miss your smile and bubbly personality! It will never be the same without you. I love you and know one day God will bring the three of us together in Heaven. Love Your Friend Always, MY-CHEL

We just wanted to give our deepest sympathy to a very sweet loving mother. She was a great lady and a very devoted mother.

I am very sorry for your loss.

Our deepest sympathy goes to your family. Pam was a devoted mother to Sadie and always had a smile on her face. Pam could care less what anyone thought about her, she just did her thing. She will always be remembered.

I have only known Pam for a little over 3 years, but that is long enough to know what a wonderful person she was. I considered her my friend and I will miss her cheery voice every time she called me. I know that Pam loved life and I am certain that everyone that met her, including me, couldn't help but smile every time they spoke with her because of her lovely smile and positive outlook at life. She will be greatly missed and my sympathy and prayers go to the family.

I just want the family to know what a kind hearted person Pam was. She was full of laughter and joy most of the time, and could always make me smile when I saw her. She was a good mother and loved her daughter more than life itself, I think most of all Pam enjoyed helping people that gave her alot of JOY and God has noticed her good works and I am sure she is in his arms right now. Pam you will be deeply missed and I will never forget the impact you have made on my life. I am very proud of the woman you became and I am extremely thankful that you have made a differance in your own daughter's life. One of my absolute favorite moments I enjoyed was looking over at you in church and seeing you worship God, your sweet soft voice and those loud clapping hands, I really do believe God truly enjoyed those moments too. I will miss looking over at you and I will always look for you. I will see you in heaven my sister. I will promise to always watch out for your daughter as I know she was the Apple of your eye. Just as you are the Apple of God's eyes. Thank you for blessing me with your laughter and your big smile. I imagine that God has his arms wrapped around you now. I love you my friend. Save a place for me and I can't wait to dance with you in the streets of gold. Love Always, Regina

We are sorry for your loss, and know that are prayers are with you and your family.

To Rhonda and the DeClue family, Our sympathies are with you for the loss of your loved one. We learn do many lessons as each day goes by There are songs to sing and a few tears to cry There are blessings to count, happy memories too And sometimes disappointment in things that we do There are cups that run over and years that are lean With bright days and dark days and long nights between But one choice we can make as we carry life's load,,, If we look towards the Heavens how it brightens the road..

May God?s grace comfort you in your time of sorrow. You are in our thoughts and prayers. The Buckner Family

My thoughts are with you. I know what a difficult time this must be. I hope that you are able to find some comfort in remembering her life. While I never had the pleasure of knowing Pam. I have had the honor of knowing Bobby and Rhonda for many years. They are two of the most fun loving people I have ever met. Their love of life, family and friends is admirable. I say this to their mother. You should be very proud. You have accomplished the ultimate task. You have raised a wonderful family. I am sure your daughter is now in the arms of our lord Jesus Christ. In closing I must say that I love you all and may God be with you. Your friend, Eric Nichols

Pam you will truly be missed. I will never forget how lively and happy you always were and the big smile that was always on your face. May God bless you, your family and beautiful daughter Mercedes during this difficult time and always.

BOBBY, I JUST WANTED TO LET YOU KNOW THAT YOU AND YOUR FAMILY ARE IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS. AT A TIME SUCH AS THIS, WORDS DO NOT SEEM TO BE ENOUGH TO EASE THE PAIN BUT KNOW THAT GOD HAS HIS LOVING ARMS AROUND YOU AND AS THE DAYS GO BY, YOU WILL BE BETTER. I LOVE YOU AND IF I CAN DO ANYTHING, PLEASE CALL ME. MUCH LOVE, YOUR BIG BROWN MOM

Pam was a wonderful person that gave all her time to help others. I owe her more than anything. Pam helped me in my time of need by having me go with her to her church when I didn't know where to look for God's help. Pam was a wonderful mother to her daughter Mercedes. Pam helped in girlscouts and other activities. Pam loved Mercedes with all her heart. Pam was a very active member in her church (First Christian Church). She helped in any way she could by helping with the church's daycare or by painting for children on their arms etc. While I attended the church with Pam I will always remember her singing the songs loud and proud. Pam will be in my heart forever. I will miss her always. I know that Pam is up there with God and with her grandmother. I just wish that God could have given us more time with her before he took her. SHE WILL BE MISSED!!!!!!!!