David Alan Bray, 82, of Swansea, Illinois, passed away on October 30, 2026.

Born on April 18, 1944, in Long Beach, California, David lived a life distinguished by service to his country, a passion for aviation, and an unwavering dedication to his family.

David grew up in De Soto and was a 1962 graduate of DeSoto High School. He earned a bachelor’s degree in business administration from Southwest Missouri State University, followed by a Master of Business Administration (MBA) degree from the University of Utah.

He proudly served as a pilot in the United States Air Force, beginning his military career in October 1966 at Lackland Air Force Base in Texas and serving during the Vietnam War from 1969 to 1970. Throughout his military career, David continued his professional development through the Air Force’s officer education programs, including Squadron Officer School (SOS) and Air Command and Staff College (ACSC), where he also served as an instructor, sharing his knowledge and experience with fellow Air Force officers.

In recognition of his military service, David received numerous honors and decorations, including the Distinguished Flying Cross, Meritorious Service Medal with two Oak Leaf Clusters, Air Medal with one Oak Leaf Cluster, and Air Force Commendation Medal. These honors reflect his exceptional service and contributions throughout his military career.

Following 20 years of service, David retired from the United States Air Force in 1986 having attained the rank of Lieutenant Colonel.

David then embarked on a second flying career as a commercial airline pilot with American Airlines where he retired in 2004 as a captain, concluding nearly four decades devoted to military and commercial aviation.

On June 10, 1972, David married Phyllis Alane Hardin in De Soto, Missouri. They shared 39 years of marriage until her passing in June 2011. During the final seven years of Phyllis’s life, as she faced an extended illness, David devoted himself wholeheartedly to her care. His extraordinary compassion, patience, and selflessness were a profound expression of his love for her. The tenderness and unwavering dedication with which he cared for Phyllis will remain among the most meaningful reflections of his character.

David was preceded in death by his beloved wife, Phyllis Alane Bray; his parents, William Edward Bray and Velma Fay (Scott) Spence; his brother, Rollan Edward Bray; and his sister, Carolyn Bray.

He is survived by his sister, Jean Ann Collins; his brothers-in-law, James Collins and John Wesley Hardin; his sisters-in-law, Margie Bradford Bray and Mary Hardin; and his nieces, Rhonda, Julie, Victoria, and Jacqueline.

Throughout his life, David exemplified dedication, perseverance, and service. His distinguished military career, his contributions to the education of fellow officers, and his years as an airline captain reflected a lifetime of professional achievement. Yet perhaps his greatest legacy was not found in the rank he attained or the aircraft he commanded, but in the extraordinary love and devotion he demonstrated in caring for his wife.

David leaves behind a legacy of honorable service to his nation, devotion to his family, and a life defined by commitment, compassion, and integrity.

He will be remembered with love, respect, and gratitude by his family and all those whose lives he touched.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association, St. Louis Chapter: 11433 Olde Cabin Road, Suite 100, Creve Coeur, MO 63141